Skip to main content

Lady of The Month March: Idaly Maceano

I first discover this young woman back in 2016, when she preformed beside rapper Marco Pave. She had an rare stage present that you don’t see in many female rappers of today. As we all know being a female rapper now, come with many eyes watching you to see if you can hang with the big boys. And from what I saw this young queen know how to carry herself. She about to take the game by storm with her music, and her unique beauty. I was so happy that she agreed to be my lady of the month. I been wanting to ask her for months to be my lady of the month, so I was ecstatic to get her views on love and relationship cause if you follow her on Twitter then you know that this woman can get deep when it comes to this topic.

1. What kind of men you into and what do you look for in a man?
I'm grateful to be involved with a man who is creative, I have always been drawn to people who have similar interests. I believe in order to accomplish any of my goals, I have to have someone who understands what I do as an artist and it's easier to date someone who is into the arts. I love ambitious people, people who go after what they want. 

What the craziest date you been on?
2. I know this probably isn't what you meant when you asked this question, but I went on a date with a guy a few years ago that I met online and his ex girlfriend showed up. I'm so glad she popped up because it let me know at the very beginning that this wasn't the man for me. 

 Can social media control your relationship or do we give social media all our power?
3. Social media can't control your relationship, you & your significant other are the only two people responsible for your relationship and you can't let anything from the outside come in and ruin what you have. Your bond should be unbreakable.

What destroy a relationship faster: lack of trust or lack of communication?
4.Lack of communication. I feel like anything can be fixed by communicating. If you don't trust a person, you shouldn't be in a relationship with them in the first place.

 For you what more important in a relationship a spiritual connection or physical connection?
5. A spiritual connection is more important to me. You can't have the physical without the spiritual. A person should definitely be comfortable with you, and nothing is more important than my comfort when it comes to connecting with someone. 

 What is the key to a successful relationship?
6. Being friends first. You have to make sure whoever you're with is honestly your friend and you have to be sure that they have your back and vice versa.

           For more info on idaly maceano, you can follow her on
these social media outlet


bbadio707 said…
This is a good list. It’s safe to say it goes both ways and with that being said many people expect certain things from others and then don’t hold themselves to the same standard. Look forward to part two.

Popular posts from this blog

The Top Five Worst Women To Be In A Relationship With

Well, I was asked, and I deliver so to speak. Even though I don’t post the letters of questions I receive from women, I still answer back. And I read these letters seeing how women answer their own questions, to why they have relationship problems. I knew if I wrote this article that I would be label as a “pick me” and that not even the case. I’m far from a “pick me” but I have observed certain behavior where I knew why these women were still single. This list is not only for my readers, writing this made me look at some of my actions as well in what areas I need to work on as I continue to grow as a woman. Before I wrote this, I had to ask 5 men, and these were the women they chose who gave them hell. Yes, I’m aware that some of these actions were fueled by the hand of men who let them down and broke their heart. But it's no point to carry that into your next relationship. Like I always say you don’t have to agree with me, but it has to be written. So, here are the top five wors…

When Hurt People Hurt: Nas and Kelis

You can’t fix what you didn’t break. Sometimes the demons we face, are not the person we’ve dated fault. We’ll never know the demons anyone truly face, until they decide if they want to take it out on us. We try to be there and show them something different but soon realize their demons are slowly killing us. As I come to learn a man is his mother image. A man is what his mother make him to be, he may carry out some of his father actions; but his character come from his mother. Like a woman is what her father tell her to be. Whether he speak it with his words or speak it with his actions (by not being in her life), a woman carry her father words with her everywhere she goes and in all of her relationships. That why sometimes when a man is reckless, if his mother understand his actions then no one else opinion of him even matter. Vice versa with a woman. We chose to play doctor but doesn’t stay around to fully cure that person injuries. We just add more cuts, to an already wounded soul…

Dating In Memphis: Top 5 Places To Go On a Date In Memphis

If you’re from Memphis then you know everyone favorite line here is “it nothing to do in Memphis”. Before last year I used to think the same thing. Going to the same hangouts, and eating at the same restaurants then getting on social media crying about how it nothing to do here or Memphis isn’t safe anymore. And of course, everyone favorite line "they shut down all the fun places in Memphis". It wasn’t until one night that I went out, and I had the time of my life at a place I never been before. The crazy part is I drove past this place several times not knowing it was a great place to hang out, and have fun (then the food was good). Since everyone here claim it nothing to do in Memphis, it leads to lack of creativity in the dating department. Well, this is where I step in and try to help. Dating is what keep the relationship alive. No matters how long you been with the person, you still have to date that person to keep that fire burning. The thing is nowhere in this univers…