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Dating in Memphis: Dating While Broke

Giiiiirrrrrlllllllllllll!!!!!!

So, this one time I went on a date with a guy. He talked about this date for 2 weeks. He wanted me to dress up and everything. So of course I put on my freakum dress. We get there. We sit down. Conversing and I’m doing the cute little laugh. Flirting with my eyes. We order our food. Having a nice time. Bill comes. He gives the waitress his card. Now where I’m sitting I can see her swipe the card. She swipes the card (1x) i look back at him he’s still talking. So I’m nodding like yeah...she swipes it a (2nd) time I sit up...biiii she swipes it a (3rd time) I have sat all the way with my elbows on the table. Baby she comes back to the table and says sorry sir your card declined. He starts looking frantic. I’m sitting there staring at him like ummmmm...I’m not about to bust no suds so you better figure it out..he trying to transfer money from his saving to checking...it’s not working because it’s the weekend. I ended up paying. Baby he dropped me off, i instantly blocked him!

J.Johnson
Memphis, TN

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