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Story Time: When The Love Is Real You'll Know...

When it come to love we always hoping that we’ll make the right choice. Sometimes I wonder how we lost the innocence of love, like when we were children or teenagers. How easy it was to show someone you love them. That small token of true love came when you held his hand, or you two writing little love notes to each other. How did we lose that? And why it’s so hard now to understand. Well it’s time for Jubo Story Time, In 2016 when I first started blogging I had this one particular male fan. He would always share my blog, and “DM” me telling me how much he loves my stories and how reading them help him get over his break up after 7 years together. Now last December he asked to meet me face to face but I kept putting it off. Simply because I wasn’t ready to date another guy. I mean when I say this guy tried, he really tried. On paper he was a catch. He has his own trucking company, no kids, 6ft 4, and he own three homes and was age appropriate (33 at the time). But even though he had all of that I just wasn’t feeling it or him. My friends were calling me all type of stupid like why would I pass up on a good man like that, but I had feelings for someone else. Therefore, I couldn’t see myself hurting and lying to a good man like him. Fast forward to now, I just seen his Facebook page that he's now engage to his girlfriend of 5 months.

He finally met “the one” and I couldn’t be more happier for him. Of course, when I shared the news to my friends they were calling me stupid saying how that could have been me if I gave him the chance. And in truth me and him wasn't meant to be. When I see this man with this woman she was made for him, and he was made for her. The way he talk about her I can feel their love, and as they become husband and wife his love for her will be stronger. Did I make right choice? In my heart I know that I did, and even if I didn’t I will find that right love for me like that one day (or maybe I already have). He was a dream man but that dream wasn't meant for me it was meant for her. In the game of love sometimes we use our heart, when we should be using our mind. Seeing how he hold this woman up bring joy into my heart. Seeing his happiness make me so happy for him, which let me know that I made the right choice to leave him alone so he could meet her. And the happiness I have found now I wouldn’t trade it for the world. My journey of true love and happiness isn’t over just yet. Have I met that person time will tell, but I wouldn’t change anything even if I did had the chance. True love is a gift. A gift that we only get one shot at having, so we shouldn’t waste it on fake love or forcing a love that just not meant for you. It should be with that person who bring out that childlike love in you, and when you find that person you hold on to them no matter what…
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