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Should I Stay or Should I Go?: What Happen When You Outgrow A Relationship

When I think of love I look at it as it’s bringing out the best in you. Pushing you to your best, challenging you to go to levels that’s profound. However, what happen when you outgrow that person who once brought the best out of you? That person who push you, to boundaries that you weren’t able to push yourself. I always wonder how love can just die. How can you go from being in love one day, too enemies the next? When you’ve been part of a “we” for a long time… perhaps too long. Though you don’t like to acknowledge it (even to yourself), the two of you don’t fit together as well as you once had. You have pursued other interests, that had personally transform your life, and… well, he’s basically continued the same as he always has. While you wouldn’t have chosen the distance that you feel, but you do feel it. So, now what?


When I first heard the ending of this couple I was shocked. They seem so private to me, and I didn’t really see any images of the pair floating around like that. H…

The Top Five Signs That He's Not Into You

When a man is into to you, then he will show you. However, when a man doesn’t want to be with you well let just say you will see those signs much clearer. We all want love, even the ones who claimed they don’t believe in love, wish that love will fall into their lap. We all have a soul mate, but it's not the person we painted in our mind. We all meet that guy who sweep us off our feet, but he either play with our emotions, put us in the friend department. Or he'll hit and quit it. Either way, he leaves us lingering feelings that we have no control over. Well I’m here to drop the signs that he just not into you. This list is also go for the guys who shoot their shot with women that won’t give him the time of day. Everyone definition of love is different. While we love to picture our soul mate, they will just be everything that we didn't want but everything that we desperately need. While we can try and picked our soul mate; our soul mate has already been chosen. Love is ama…

Can Men & Women Just Be Friends?

At first, I didn’t understand the big deal until I saw it with my own eyes. Men would tell me that I had to choose between my best friend, or him and I would always choose my best friend. No one has my back like my two male best friends. Through all the hell that life have thrown at me, my best friends been there to wipe my tears. I used to say that women were so insecure to have a problem with me, cause I’m the last person you should’ve worried about when you're dating my best friend. It wasn’t until I dated a man with a female best friend then I saw the problem. Don’t you just hate that shit? It wasn’t that I had a problem with him having a woman as his best friend, hello that would make me a huge walking hypocrite. It was the simple fact that she didn’t respect me, and he didn’t care if she did respect me. 
The thing about these types of friendship that you must build boundaries. As one woman put it, when we develop a sexual attraction to someone we’re involved with socially or …

Dating In Memphis: Top 5 Signs You're on A Bad First Date

Dating in Memphis is hard. I was asked by someone is Dating in Memphis, really that bad? It’s obvious answer to that question so I will let my readers answer it for me. While I could blame solely the men on this one. I have to point at the women as well, look now you know I’m a straight shooter. We're all guilty of this. When we’re having a bad date it’s signs that let you know that this will be the last time you’ll see this person. While sometimes you do know the signs, it other times that you don’t (or you just don’t care). Well I’m here to show you the signs that you’re on a bad date. Look, it's no such thing as a perfect first date just perfect moments. However, these signs will let you know if you've wasted a perfectly good outfit on an asshole.

You’re on The Phone the Whole Time Now, I’m all for checking my phone from time to time on a date. However, spending the whole date on the phone is rude as fu*k. How can you get to know someone when you spending, half the date …

Story Time: When The Love Is Real You'll Know...

When it come to love we always hoping that we’ll make the right choice. Sometimes I wonder how we lost the innocence of love, like when we were children or teenagers. How easy it was to show someone you love them. That small token of true love came when you held his hand, or you two writing little love notes to each other. How did we lose that? And why it’s so hard now to understand. Well it’s time for Jubo Story Time, In 2016 when I first started blogging I had this one particular male fan. He would always share my blog, and “DM” me telling me how much he loves my stories and how reading them help him get over his break up after 7 years together. Now last December he asked to meet me face to face but I kept putting it off. Simply because I wasn’t ready to date another guy. I mean when I say this guy tried, he really tried. On paper he was a catch. He has his own trucking company, no kids, 6ft 4, and he own three homes and was age appropriate (33 at the time). But even though he had a…