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Lady Of The Month:Poetic Sun

This past Sunday, I attend one of my closet friend poetry play “not your mother diary”, and I will say that this play was one of the best shows I seen in a long time. First off, let me talk about the master mind behind the show Tiarica Randle. Since I met this gifted woman I been to several of her events, and every event is better than the last. She is a young gift who name is growing on the Memphis scene, she also blessed the stage with two unforgettable performances of the night. But let me get back to this show, the whole cast was amazing but my favorite was none other than poetic sun. Since the day, I start blogging I would always hear amazing things about this woman. From her spoken words, to her beauty it’s has always been great things when I hear people speak her name. So, I asked her to be my lady of the month and I’m so happy that she accepted the title. I asked her five questions about love, and what she look for in a guy; and she gave me some amazing answers that I’m so happy to share with you guys.

1. What kind of men you into and what do you look for in a man?
I like the creative types. I like true Kings. The ones who know their worth and also their woman's. I love when a man is confident, but not cocky. A leader. One who is strong mentally and physically. A man who understands his position as the head. One who understands that he must give his woman something of substance to submit to, along with a foundation to stand on.  A man who is kind, respectful, quirky, free-spirited, spontaneous, loyal, courteous, and a friend.

2. What is the craziest date you been on and what your ideal date?
I haven't really had a crazy date. Is dancing in the dark on the beach, while learning Haitian dances considered crazy? Ha-ha!

3. What is your favorite body part on a man?
May sound weird, but their back!! Omg a strong back is everything!!

4. How you feel about black love and what kind we do to make it stronger?
Black love is beautiful! There's something powerful about two deep melanin people in union. We are the most unique, the most individualistic, the most divine people in this life, and for us to find love in one another is truly amazing. I believe to make our love stronger we must listen, be attentive, be unselfish, and learn patience. All of these things combined strengthens relationships in any form.

5. For you what more important in a relationship a spiritual connection or physical connection (once you pick explain your reasons behind your choice)?
Definitely spiritual. If my partner and I wake up tomorrow, with the inability to see or feel, will our connection be strong enough to hold us together....

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