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Five Ways Not To Approach A Woman

One of the reason why dating is so hard right now, is the fact that men doesn’t know how to properly approach a woman anymore. There're grown men that still come up to women, like they in high school. But again, we can’t place all the blame on men, we know how they approach us was disrespectful but we keep our mouth closed because he looks good; or because he have money. So, now I’m about to break down the wrong way to approach a woman. Please understand respect is what a woman want, she shouldn’t have to asked for what she deserve. Stop using a woman background, or the way some women carry themselves as the reason why you apporach women the way you do. And women stop letting men disrespect you, a man will treat you how you allow him to treat you.


The Persistent Man This is the guy you told “no” to several times in the past, you told him your reason why you’re not interested in him (reason being you're in a relationship or he simply not your type). But he keeps trying to holl…

It Only For One Night: How To Have A Successful One Night Stand

Someone asked me do I believe in true love? And I told them of course I do I couldn’t write about love if I didn’t believe in love. But sometimes we have needs, and we want to wait to fulfill those needs but eventually you get tired of waiting. While being celibate has made me a better woman, there are days when I want to throw in the towel and say fuck it (but I know I’m doing this for a purpose that is bigger than me). furthermore, when you’re ready to throw in the towel you don’t want to wait for a relationship to do so. Which is where one night stand come into play I have one, or two one night stand under my belt; and for some reason you feel a sense of power afterwards (depending on the person you lay down with). I get asked all the time “how can you have a successful one night stand”, well I’m about to tell you how but please remember don’t become a custom to having a one night stand. While they are convenient, they can make you question your worth. If you’re not mature enough t…

What Are We?: The Importance Of Titles

On this journey that I’m currently on, it leading me to the answers that was I thought would never get the answers to. And one the questions that I finally got the answer to was the importance of titles in relationships, I come to realize why people have so many failed “relationships”, well thinking that they have another failed relationship under their belt. See, we live in a time where no believe in title anymore. Everyone has a fear of getting hurt, or so they claim. As I always say, the time we’re living in are way different then the time that our parents lived in. We don’t press for title in relationship anymore, we assume that after we been there for a person for a long time then we’re in a relationship. Or we think if we’re are talking to that certain person, for a long amount of time then we’re are in a relationship. We don’t see how we’re just playing house, and unless you hear him say the words that you’re his woman than you’re not his woman.




As I come to learn my mistakes wh…

The Girlfriends Codes: Ciara,Yolanda Frederick, And Russell Wilson

Since I wrote about drake, and his love life a few times on here I guess I can rewrite about another couple again as well. So, earlier this week Russell Wilson went on Facebook live for a “Q&A” however what stood out about the interview was his wife Ciara best friend Yolanda Frederick coming into the interview; and sitting in Russell Wilson lap. It was crazy how comfortable she was to sit in his lap, like she was his wife (now he did asked her to sit in his lap but that still don't make it right she knew the girlfriend code). We want our man to be comfortable around our friends, however if that was my best friend sitting in my man lap like that then we would some issues in our friendship. Dating is hard enough as is, but we’re living in a time where no one respect the relationship code anymore it just everyone for themselves. And that video is a reminder why women don’t trust other women around their man, we make jokes about it all the time but don’t address how we feel; and t…

Are You Actually Ready For A Relationship?

How many people can sit here, and actually say that they’re ready for a relationship? That the question I noticed that no one really asked themselves because it seems like we get lost in our relationship that we don't see when we're fucking up. When I was in my last relationship I was so invested in him, that I didn't realize that I didn't have shit going on for myself. My focus was him, and only him and no matter how my friends kept telling me that I was fucking up I wouldn't listen. It wasn't until the relationship ended that I saw, that I spent too much time focus on him and it damn near cost me everything. But I won't relive that mistake however, I will share my story once again so I can help other women.




It in a woman blood to love harder than a man because we're not allowed to have one title. It in us to do it all, or try to do it all even when we know we need to sit our ass down. There are time when keep going, like there isn't a off button go…

Lady Of The Month: Imani Hakim

As you know, we can’t have a gentleman of the month without a lady of the month. And this month we have none other than Imani Hakim, some of you may don’t know her by her birth name but if you grew up on “everybody hate Chris” than you will remember her role as Chris sassy baby sister "Tonya". She has since grown up to be a beautiful young woman, and now she stars in Netflix new movie called “burning sands” (which is a good movie I watch it last night, and I see now I need to pay my Netflix bill cause I'm missing some good movies) in which she did a quick interview with me about the film; and she also open up her love life and more.

Everyone knows you from “everybody hates Chris”, have it been hard for you to transition from that role since the have series have ended?

My transitioning from child to young adult star has been an amazingly great experience. I really have to credit my parents and manager for keeping me grounded. I try to align myself with the right c…

It Never Ok: Chris Brown, And Karrueche Tran

Oh Chris brown, Chris brown. Writing about Chris brown will always be hard for me, because I think about the first time I felt in love with him (Dec 19th 2005). Even after the Rihanna case I stood by him, need I remind you I was just 19 at the time; and I really didn’t understand the def of what he did to her. I remember going to get my hair done, hearing women saying how Rihanna brought this on herself that she asked to get beat up like that for putting her hands on him first. And over the years we tired, to stand by him but it seems like he just won’t get his act together. Even after being locked up he still went back to doing the same thing, knowing that he have a target on his back it like he doesn’t know how gifted he truly is.



But now there’re new allegations made against him, by his ex-girlfriend karrueche Tran that he threated to killed her; and she also alleged that he “punched her in stomach twice” and pushed her down the stairs “several years ago,”. The court documents of th…

Gentlemen Of The Month:Clint Coley

I was asked what happen to “gentlemen of the month?”, and why I stopped. Well I didn’t stop, it was just that finding the right man to promote for my gentlemen of the month was a lot of work but now I decide to bring it back with the perfect guy to kick it off. If you haven’t seen one of Clint Coley or listen to one of his comedy albums than you missing out on life, Clint Coley is funny; and cute and I was happy he was willing to share alil bit about him. Over the past few years, Coley has traveled the country performing his comedy routines for diverse audiences. Since 2012, Coley has opened for seasoned comedian D.L. Hughley as he’s toured the country. Coley’s comedic gift led to Hughley crowning him “The Prince.” Coley has also opened for fellow Philadelphian and acclaimed comedian Kevin Hart. Beyond being a gifted comedian, Coley has a knack for business, writing, producing and acting. Coley produced and headlined Babylon Cartel Presents: Clint Coley’s All Jokes Aside, performing i…