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AmoreXOX Advice

Hey amoreXOX I need some advice
I met this guy, and I think he is great the problem is he used to date one of my closet friends. I know her for about a year now, and when I met her they have just stopped talking it seem like the relationship ended peacefully. But I don’t know how to tell her, he a great guy and we have a deep connection and you know how women are when it comes to a past guy. Should I tell her or should I end the relationship before it goes farer?
K.Zaveri 24

Well this is hard to say, to me no I don’t think you should break up with the guy (now before you hoes go off I’m about to tell you why she shouldn’t). First off how close are you, and this woman is also the question. Do you two talk on an everyday basic? Cause if not then not you two might just be friends where when your other friends are busy you called each other; and that not a real friendship. And how long did they dated also is the question, if it was a few months then I say no you shouldn’t stop talking to him but if there are years between them then I would say stay away from him because he could easily be using you to get back at her. And remember if you do choose to date him,not only you lose him you lose a friend as well so get ready. Think long, and hard before you make this decision.

Hi AmoreXOX
I been seeing this guy for the past 4 months, and everything was going amazing until he fell asleep during us making love. The first time I didn’t think anything of it, and he was like he works long hours so it can happen from time to time. But it since have happen 4 more time, and this has happened before in the past; and when I asked my ex of 4 years why he fell asleep during us having sex he said because I was boring and bad in bed. So, what should I do I really love this guy; and I don’t want to lose him for the same thing as my last relationship please help.
New York City,NY

Wow man just wow, well for one your ex is a liar if you were so bad in bed then he would have been dumped you the first night you both had sex. And two you don’t love his guy, you just met him he just makes you happy and make you feel like a woman should feel. However, I have heard this happening to women (I fell asleep during sex because it was horrible and he didn’t know what he was doing). You need to change it up from your usual, the same moves and position get boring after a while you can change up the lineup of the positions then that something new. The point is you’re not bad in bed, it time to change it up from the norm there are many books on how to change it up. And four you just met the guy, don’t pulled all your new moves out on him you just met him so save a little bit of what you learn don’t give it all to him in one night.

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