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Guy's R Us: The Best 5 Places To Go Meet A Man

Women asked me all the time, "if there are good men out there then why can't I meet one"?. Since I been blogging, I have met many good men. However, the places where I met these men are usually places women refused to go. When you keep going to the same movie theater, or the same restaurant then you will meet the same type of men. And it don't help your case, when you're close minded; and refused to go anywhere new. And tip number two, if you have two; or more of your girlfriends with you then a guy won't approach you. But here are my 5 places where you guaranteed to meet a man.

1. Game Room/Rec Room
 I’m a nerd, so it's nothing for me to go to a game bar; and have a good time. when I go to a game bar, it surprises me how the place is literally a women ghost town. You will see a small group of women there, but they are usually there with their boyfriend’s (or they're playing the games themselves like me). There nothing like a fine nerdy man, now they will be deeply into their video games. However, when they go for to get a drink; or go to the restroom that when you make your move. And if you know the game that he is playing, then it will definitely give you bonus points with a guy you’re talking to. And Memphis have 5 gamer bars, so there no reason that you can go there; and meet a nice guy.

2. UFC Tournaments
Now when I go to the UFC fights, I actually for the fights. But you can’t help to notice, when there are a cute guy’s around you. And the guys who are fighting, are nice to look at as well before they get a black eye.  When I go here I always have a good time, and the men loves seeing women there as well. If you’re looking for a guy, that into sports then this will be your best start. And if you're usually not a sport fan, then this is for you. it’s easy to understand, and the fights usually last no longer than 3 hours.

3. Comic book Convention/ Sneakers Convention
A comic book convention is ten times more fun than a wedding convention (remember ladies I’m a nerd). But male conventions are the best way to meet a hot guy. and Memphis have more conventions than any other cities I know. And you will meet many single guys that ready to meet single women, and the bonus is that most of these men are from other states so you get to meet better variety of men. And while some of these conventions cost money, it will be worth it when you meet your soulmate.

4. Poetry Reading
Poetry shows are usually where you would go for a date, however there will a few single men there as well. And this is when it’s ok to have, a small group of your girlfriends with you (for me I don’t understand why women want their girls with them in the first-place cause let say you both like the same guy and the guy like your friend it will be an issue within your friendship all over a guy so to avoid the bullshit just go alone or go with your shy girlfriend we all know at least one shy girl in our group of girlfriend). It nothing like a man reading you one of his poem, or having him singing one of his songs to you. So, go; and have a great time but also go to meet a good guy as well.

5. Social Media (yes I know but hear me out)
When you’re trying to meet your soulmate, then you have to be open to where you will meet them. Not every guy who "like" your picture on social media, is a loser. He could actually be, a good guy. The man that I’m dating now, I met him on Facebook. I didn’t even know that I was following him, until he inbox me; and asked me out. We went on a date, and it was actually the best date I had in a long time. Yes, dating online is very dangerous; because you have people using other people pictures; and tricking them. And like Wendy Williams said, they could be the “killer’. However, this is where again having a large group of girlfriends come in handy (I didn’t take none of my friends with me on this date I went alone so don’t make the same mistake I made I was happy that he was the man in the picture and he wasn’t a crazy person he is actually a good guy so far but everything is still in the early stages). When you go meet the guy in person, you should have your best girlfriend sitting at the bar while on the date with the guy. and when you feel like it safe to be alone, then tell your girl she can go (but still give her his car and tag number don’t be a damn fool you don’t want your body to be chop up).  Dating someone off of social media is a risk, but dating is a risk period. So, if you meet someone off a dating app or social media just plan the date; and let your closet friend know the deal.

As we know, life is very short. The last thing you want to do, is waste your life with a person that won’t make you happy. Love is an amazing feeling, that some people never get to experience. However, for those who are blessed to meet their soulmate they will tell you that it was a long road to meeting their mate. We don’t seem to understand, how it’s a blessing to be single. We have time to not only seek answers, to what will fulfill us on our journey of love. We can also take the time to see, the true beauty that is within us. When a person leave our lives, that is the chance we have to find our key to happiness. While it nothing wrong in having fun, just be wise with who you having fun with.

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