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Levels Of A Love Ballad: The 6 Elements Of Love

Written By Will.Harm
The topic is about the battle of love. Because it’s a message behind every person you said hello to, or been in a relationship with. Again I am only voicing my opinion. Please people be aware I'm only human a K.I.N.G.

Past love
 I call this past love because when you’re in a class learning to create your world, it will reflect from the place that been lost, and found. Because a past love, will reflect how you treat your present relationships.

Grow to love
 My mother use to tell me all the time, that some people don't know how to be a friend which it’s true. So how can you plant the seed, if you don’t pay attention to every detail? Like the brotha PAC once said "Spark the Brain". The morals, and principals starts in the household. While some people are thankful to have a structured family, some are not. Take a good look around you in this corrupt world we’re living in, it's so high tech, and powerful to the mind. In this day, and age your mind will race a thousand miles per minute. So be careful of the distractions, and fear you place in your mind. All of those ingredients, are mixed in your mind like a bowl of soup. And your mind will stimulated from that meal, you're mixing in your mind which can be poisonous. Which is why you have to keep in mind, that you cannot keep suffering from loneliness.Yes, we all have a purpose as an individual to learn about self, but it’s nothing like having a soulmate ya dig.

Taught how to love
This third one is very important, because you don't want to grow up suffering from the generational patterns. Going back to “grow to love”, while you're living in a single-parent home, and you see they are taking care of the home by any means. It’s hard to see what's right in front of you, or if that person is really good for you. And if they are strong enough to love. The best teachers of life is yourself, and each time as you pass it on, you will appreciate the little things more, and learn how to love more.

 Yeah this is a fact, because it’s hard to accept a person for who they are as a human being. Sometimes when you go to the store, and buy the most expensive item in there because it look nice, and stylist to you. You spent all of your time working hard to get that gift you wanted in order to go out, and be the flyest person in the building. This may fly over your head but sit back, and understand what I’m trying to say. You got to see this from present point of view, it like how my grandfather use to tell me about those sneakers I use to want so bad, he would tell me that “those sneakers are going to get old one day”. So what I’m saying is, you got to learn how to accept everything about that person, and for who they are. You have to work to find that one person who will keep you satisfied, or just settle for a person who will bring you little, to nothing to the table.

Handling the truth

 I call this part healing of the heart, we have all once said "FUCK LOVE". Which it’s true, love can cut you deep. So dealing with the past, and present time of the healing process will register in your mind, and keep telling you to have that fear of love, and remind you of that fear to keep you from getting hurt again. But you have to ask yourself: what make you react to certain situations like you do? Do you want to apply more pressure to the wounds, or do you want to take it easy, and stop constantly selling a motherfucker a dream ya dig. The truth can hurt you, but its will heal you if you learn to accept the truth.

 Future love
Everyone thinks about where they want to be in the next five to ten years, I know I do every day. Now the breakdown part, if you add up the past-present goals, and subtract to your goal that you desire now. Ask yourself once you matured. And truly ready to fly high with that person, you fallen in love with. After all the lessons you went through, the errors, and the "FUCK LOVE" moments. Now you see the importance of that person you love that went through mountains and storms for you. And now you can finally tell that person, that you feel like to be your perfect candidate. That you're ready to take that love to a higher place. You've got the Love Jones, to my Cherie amour.

  That Is All


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