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Sex Ed 901

It’s has been said that bad sex can end a so called great relationship. Why? Because of lack of communication & the fact both parties don’t want to look like the bad guy. But how can you tell your spouse you not happy sexually without look like the bad guy or a big bitch? And what are the warning signs that your partner is not happy sexually? Well here are 5 Signs.


I’m so guilty of this, if you can hear a pen drop during sex you’re not fucking her right. And your partner is not happy no one especially a man like it when yall having sex and she not making a sound, not even one lil moan nothing. If she not making a sounds in the first position, then change the position or pull her hair well asked her first can you pull her hair or smack her ass do something to make her speak cause no one like quiet sex.


Whether men want to hear it SIZE DO MATTER!!!!!!!!! Yes, there are men who blessed and can’t fuck worth a damn but that can be fix with the right teacher. We know all men don’t have eggplant. But not one woman wants a baby carrot either an average black man penis is 8 inch everything else is too big or just overly blessed. But if you are below that size map then oral sex better be your best friend. If not (Look it’s 2016 if you don’t eat the box but want a woman to give oral, then you lost your rabbit ass mind I mean really I can’t believe that their men out there who don’t give oral sex but want women to give oral that the quickest way to lose a phone number) then their temporaily penis growth pills that enlarge the penis for 24 to 48 hours. And women if you know your man is small then tell him it’s a conversation that need to happen if you really want to be with him don’t talk to your friends before you talk to him.


When in a relationship or situation-ship, you both are no longer fucking you are making love. But after a while its can get boring even if he can still hit your spot or give you an orgasm or climax doing the same moves, and having schedule sex can ruined it especially for men. You can keep that fire in relationship and keep the romance you just have to change it up, have sex in the shower, have sex in the car, or pop up at his job on his break for a quickie, or do it in the kitchen or give him head while he driving. Just still let him know that you still want him sexually, and you love him, and appreciate him for all that he does I’m not saying sex is the only way you can show him that but it’s can help.


Unless you are secure within yourself then do it, but if not then don’t. In truth a threesome doesn’t help the relationship at all but mess up you both trust between you two especially if you she knows more moves then you. But if you willing to have a threesome then that means you are open to try new things you don’t have to share a bed with another person to try new things.

5.Faking it

Ladies, we all have this bad. While some women are willing to tell their men the truth about the problems in the bedroom, most women won't I know I didn’t. I knew my ex was bad in bed and I’m not talking shit because we broke up, he was really bad I thought “I waited a whole year for this” because how bad it was. but I love him and didn’t say anything and I kept that lie until we broke up. But a lot of women do this, the more you fake it the more your urge to cheat grow bigger and bigger and while he thinks you happy and pleased he don’t realize how close you are to sleep with another man. So be truthful and get “201 sex games” book and just tell him. You can tell him without looking like the bitch and this book can help him, show him what you need. But if he not willing to learn and or nothing changes, then to avoid cheating I hate to say it but dump him. Because he not trying to fix the issue at hand and he unfixable, so save yourself from cheating and leave.

Sex is powerful. It’s when two soul become one, having sex is truly an act of spirit transformation. And when it comes to the topics of the important needs in a relationship sex is up there even when no one want to admitted to it, it’s up there. And without good sex some to most relationship don’t make it which is crazy. But sex is a deep connection between two souls and sometimes sleeping around can’t give you that feeling. So If your partner is not happy then talk to them asked them what is wrong and be willing to learn. And ladies I say this a lot its nothing with being a freak for your man if you love him and you truly see yourself being with him for life then show him there nothing wrong with trying new things with him but don’t do a threesome like really don’t. just share your feelings of what you need sexually and grow as a couple.

That Is All


Emma Lena said…
Hi.....The most important relationship advice for men is that it is completely normal to lose the initial glamour. You cannot feel that way your whole life and so you don't need to over react to this situation. Simply because the glamour is lost does not mean that the other person have become unbearable who just seemed so much to you a while back. Act with maturity and don't make haste decisions.Read more-Relationship Advice For Men

Dennis Bond said…
The sexuality is the capability to get erotic responses and experiences. It also refers to the way one is sexually attracted to a person of opposite sex, or same sex.
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