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Relationship Krama

We all been cheated on and played with and hurts. But it's always seen for some people walking away isn't enough. We hate to think that the person who cause us so much pain and heartache is getting away with hurting us, for some we believe that we should make that person suffer from hurting us and breaking our heart.

But why don't we realize that the person who hurts us is suffering much more then we ever know? Relationship karma is something I just don't fuck with. Look I don't care if you don't believe in karma, but trust me when I say it's very real.

I know I say it all the time "If you not happy with someone or they not treating you right then leave". But again that fear of being alone, that all our hard work given to someone else after we the one who suffer the most. How can we move on after we been there through everything when they were at their lowest, when they didn't have nothing going on in there lives. How can we move on?

If that the reason why you sticking around then you worse then the person who cheated on you. Holding on to a bad relationship just so they won't be able to move on is sad and it's hurt you way more than its help you and will causes you not to trust anyone in a relationship.

Don't ever think that the person who hurts you will not get hurt in the end. People believe that when a person break their heart or hurts them for no reason that they must hurts that person right away. Yes I been there is wanted to hurt the man who broke my heart and I did but I round up looking like the asshole in the end. Hurting someone who hurts me gave them power and let them know they hurts me and by seeking Revenge I round up getting karma for rushing their karma.

No matter what and how if you cause pain to someone who don't deserve it you will have to deal with the karma of hurting someone who is only guilty of being there for you and loving you at your lowest. And if karma don't hit you then people you loves dearly will get karma to them so women if you are playing with two men heart and trust; then your son's will pay with a woman with a evil spirit of hurt and pain in her heart. And men with daughters SMH I feel sorry for the man who will break her heart because you broken so many and hurts so many IE peter gunz rings a bell. Like I said before if you are not happy then leave cheating just break so many people and cause so many problems for no reason at all.
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