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Post HeartBreak

Breakups are hard. It's can go from tears to anger in a matters of seconds. You listening to the bitter women girl group: Fantasia, K.Michelle, Keyshia Cole, and Mary J. Blige. And after your fourth jar of Nutella you realize all the little things to you he did wrong; and then you realize one thing that stood out, He didn't apologize. Ok see there so much that wrong with this whole statement, and I'm about to break it down to you.

1. The whole fact you mad about the break up. Every relationship will not have a Fairy tale endings, and walking around mad, sad, and bitter. And only set you back a thousand steps, and no one like a bitter woman. And crying over a man you know deep down inside you didn't love just ain't worth it POINT BLANK PERIOD.

2. Eating while depressed over a break-up is simply the last thing you should do. You not gonna find happiness in a jar of Nutella, or whatever you eating, why would you eat yourself to a size you know that gonna be hard to lose; Get up and go out or go to, and plan you a night of fun with your friends. The point is put the foods down.

3. Now look I love those women, but dealing with a broken heart these are the last women I will listen too. In fact any breakups music or songs that remind you of him of a no go. Breakups songs just make you angry, and sad, and make you want to hurt him, or do the last thing you need to do call him. Breakups music is like fast foods it's should always be the choice.

4. The whole point of this story That "apology" you so called want. Yea no let it go, If you call him for anything or for an apology it's will make you look bitter and desperate to have any kind of contact with him. And the fact you got to asked him for a apology, should tell you everything about you guy's relationship. The point I'm making why you continuing to hold on to a relationship that just not meant to be. You're holding yourself back, and making harder for you to move on, and let go.

Like I said before every breakups are hard, and yes we want closure to understand what went wrong. You have to accept that you might not get closure. But that ok that don't mean you shouldn't move on, Just take this as a lost; and a lesson and move on. And for God sake let him move on, and don't talk shit about him. Like I said before no one like a bitter woman, and talking about him make you look bitter.
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